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Liz
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| 09/09/2010 8:33 PM |
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| I got FB about a month ago, and there's this guy I know who, whenever we're both on, starts chatting with me. Sometimes when we're getting off he'll say "ttyl", and the next one "??". Is he...idk...making sure I'll talk to him later or something?
Plus he keeps saying we should get together sometime, and saying it and saying it. I have kept it very neutral (not a yes or a no) but he keeps insisting. Is he wanting to meet as friends, or does he have a...closer relationship in mind?
I'm not very ituitive, and don't have good people reading sills, so this site is a lifesaver. Thanks for your imput!! |
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Lucky Albatross
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| 09/10/2010 1:00 AM |
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Something I'm confused on. You say you know him. Do you know him soley through Facebook or have you guys met face to face before? That would influence my response alot. From what I've gathered, he seems awfully pushy about meeting. My advice, if you'll have it, is come back at him next time he asks. Ask why he's pushing so hard for meeting up. It just seems odd to me he's so insistent.
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clare
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| 09/10/2010 3:28 PM |
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| yeah it depends on if you know him or not!!! I talk to Lucky here all the time in FB and stuff, never met but one or the other of us always says "till next time" or something! Another of my friends would say "luvs" when we were done talking and some people thought it was weird but everyone has a different way of saying good bye! |
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Adelynn
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| 09/10/2010 4:35 PM |
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| yeah, if you know him in real life it may be completely different than if you don't! I know guys who always say "We should get together sometime" whenever we talk online, but when I respond with something like "Yeah. You have my phone number" they never make the call. Sometimes it's just their way of scoping you out, so to speak- does she like me enough to be all for this, or is it neutral? Also, some people really do want to hang out, but they get busy and forget. If you aren't encouraging him, he won't make any special effort to get together, it may just sound like a good idea to him. |
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Liz
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| 09/12/2010 3:17 PM |
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Yes, I do know him outisde of facebook. We both worked at camp this summer, and he just moved to a town that's 25 miles from me to start collage.
Thanks for those responses! Good stuff! |
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Liz
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| 09/12/2010 5:14 PM |
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| Does that change your answer LA? |
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Lucky Albatross
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| 09/13/2010 12:30 AM |
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My original advice still stands right now. There's tenacity, but there's also biting the bullet. He might not know when to bow out. That said, I think he likes you alot. He sees a possibility of something in the fact you haven't said yes or no. That's probably why he's still trying. Barring any ulterior motives, I'd say go ahead and meet him if you so choose. Have lunch, or if 1 on 1 isn't your thing, invite him to your church or something with alot of people. Or tell him no. He's gonna keep asking if you don't however.
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One step at time,
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nateynate
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| 09/20/2010 6:44 PM |
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| He has a closer relationship in mind |
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" Wake up oh my soul
wake up and praise the Lord
rise up you sleepy soul
rise up and praise the Lord"
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