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derek11
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| 07/28/2010 6:55 AM |
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| let me start off by giving some info about me, im a soldier who is currently stationed overseas, recently, i got with a girl who i went to high school with back in april. we were so great together, the relationship lasted four months. and on our first month of being together, she told me that she had signed up for active duty military, i told her i would support her 100%. well this july, the fourth month, she broke up with me without warning. i was crushed. but she said that she wanted to be friends. i was ok with it. so time went on, and for about two weeks we didnt talk, mainly cuz im busy doing what i need to do to survive over here. well on the beginning of the third week, i got a message on facebook saying, "derek i made a mistake, i may have freaked out, but im so sorry for treating you the way i did, and i want to tell you im so sorry." well i talked to her for awhile that day, and we got back together. and one of the things she said was i hope you are still serious about seeing me on your two week leave. and i told her of course, it wouldnt be the same not seeing her. well after that convo, i started thinking about things, and i told her how i felt, i felt like i needed to guard myself from getting hurt again, and that i want to trust her 100% and that i need her to want this, and for her to not do this again, cuz if she does, its all over. well since then, she wont talk to me... did i something wrong? is there any way to get her to talk to me again? |
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Adelynn
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| 07/28/2010 8:40 AM |
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| You said she signed up for active duty, maybe she is busy? |
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"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic |
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clare
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| 08/02/2010 6:37 PM |
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where did my post go!!! I wrote a long one and it isn't even on here
she didn't recently break up or go thru something hard with another guy did she?? You do not want to be used as a rebound!! I think when you come back for your break it would be good to see her and see if this is something you want or not. It would be a good idea to keep your heart guarded to keep it from possibly getting hurt more. Trust her, but protect yourself in doing that, it can be a fine balance!! I was in a relationship where he broke up with me, came back, broke up, came back, and after doing that quite a few times I had enough, I didn't know what direction to let me heart go!! That can be a very confusing and scary time!!
Being far away from someone you love can very really really hard, maybe she just freaked out and didn't think she could handle it? |
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