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Ashley
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| 03/04/2010 12:34 PM |
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Hello, my situation is so out of track like i really do not know what to do. I am new to the school, i have a couple of friends here but just the other day one of my friends turned they back on me. She went around talking about me for a couple of days....i didnt say anything to her about it cause i thought that she would never do any thing like this...See i got my hair cut and in class i heard her talking about me to another student...then she moved behind me and stard touching my hair in a slick kinda way as if i wouldnt notice that she did this......I talked to her about it and she said that she didnt do this but i saw it for my self I really dont know what i should do next in this situation.....somebody please bring me a miracle.  |
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Adelynn
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| 03/04/2010 9:57 PM |
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| I'm confused about the hair cut being an issue? |
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"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic |
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Ashley
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| 03/05/2010 12:13 PM |
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| Thats where i misunderstood that too it really doesnt make any sense. I am in mess and have no way out. |
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dqchristian
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| 03/05/2010 12:16 PM |
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Everyone, I'd like you to meet Ashley! |
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"Life is not a matter of holding good cards, it's playing a poor hand well." |
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JoJo
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| 03/08/2010 7:24 PM |
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ok, i dont get what's up with your friends, but one thing I can say is... girls can be so catty and often talk about other girls behind their back... and being honest, I've caught myself doing it before, and I try not to, but I do slip up sometimes... and I'm almost 21...
so one thing for the future, dont tell all your friends stuff that is a really big secret to you, cuz you tell one, and they'll tell another, even if they're not meaning for everyone to find out. only tell people you can trust.
back to the topic, i donno, maybe just sit your "friend" down and say "you know, I'm not dense, I saw you doing "so and so" and if you deny it, and can't be honest and tell me what was up with that, and why my new haircut bother's you so much that you feel you need to make fun of me, then I can't see the point in continuing our friendship..."
it can be hard, but if she's like this, there's nothing to say she wont be like that again...
Hope that helped... feel free to ask more lol. |
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nateynate
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| 03/13/2010 9:32 PM |
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| What kinda stuff has she been saying? |
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" Wake up oh my soul
wake up and praise the Lord
rise up you sleepy soul
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**Jes :-)
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| 03/13/2010 10:39 PM |
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| the first thing i would say if she can do that go behind your back and say things about you, she is not worth hanging onto!! if she comes back to you as a friend be a friend to her but don't let your walls down and start telling her things that you don't want her talk about. i no what you are talking about!! i have had that happen too and it was something that was NOT even true!! but i just thought so what let them say what they want!! i will be who i am and in the long term once everything is revealed the person who started the rumor will not feel to good about it and i just wasn't going to let that bother me! i have a ''friend'' now too she will be totally friends one day and the next day she can turn around and i get kicked for what i have done, then i think i wiil just draw back and leave it!! then she turns around and is all friendly again!! so i try to remain calm and kind! |
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