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dqchristian
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| 03/02/2010 11:39 AM |
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| Really, I thought of myself as ready at one time (like, a month ago!), but, as I have just read recently, we just need to keep our focus on God and make His kingdom the first priority in our lives. He'll take care of the rest. |
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"Life is not a matter of holding good cards, it's playing a poor hand well."
Let’s stop trying to FIND the right match and instead BE the right match. |
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dqchristian
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| 03/02/2010 11:41 AM |
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Posted By clare on 03/01/2010 11:14 PM
Ready...Does he have a job? How strong is he in his walk with God? Does he get me to do what he wants by down playing or playing up my emotions? What is his attitude toward those in authority over him? Does he have any bad habits such as porn? Does he spend time praying and searching for God's will, not his own? When things go his way does he face it or turn angry and run?
I realize I'm not just saying when a man is ready to date, but get married also.
Right now my ex got really PO'd at me, I told him to please don't mess with a girl and just wait on God and please stop doig porn, and sent me a really really hurtful, scathingly mean, painful email saying how stupid and worthless I am. He thinks he has been so used and I threw him away and he was the best man in the whole world. I am really really angry and very hurt. but it goes to show this man was not the man he should have been. And he wanted me to marry him. I'm so glad I didn't, but he is not being a man and is blaming it all on me. I guess that's an example of someone who wasn't really ready.
Sorry for the double post, but, wow, clare. That must have been hard on you. |
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"Life is not a matter of holding good cards, it's playing a poor hand well."
Let’s stop trying to FIND the right match and instead BE the right match. |
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luke
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| 03/02/2010 6:23 PM |
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| David, did you just get to be 15 this year? |
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Luke 6:48, (THE MESSAGE) "If you work the words into your life, you are like a smart carpenter who dug deep and laid the foundation of his house on bedrock. When the river burst its banks and crashed against the house, nothing could shake it; it was built to last.
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luke
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| 03/02/2010 6:24 PM |
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| David, did you just get to be 15 this year? I'm Going to be 14 in June. |
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Luke 6:48, (THE MESSAGE) "If you work the words into your life, you are like a smart carpenter who dug deep and laid the foundation of his house on bedrock. When the river burst its banks and crashed against the house, nothing could shake it; it was built to last.
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Michaela
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| 03/02/2010 10:10 PM |
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| Hey, to all you guys that will be reading this, all girls are different- somewhat- but we generally dont like it when a guy tries to really show off for a girl. Observe a girl, (in the right way,) and if you pray about it and think its OK, really dont be afraid to just talk to her! We apreciate it when you dont appear to have "planned the whole thing to steal our hearts", We like guys who are just guys. |
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David
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| 03/03/2010 3:55 AM |
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I turned fifteen last year. And wow girls are so complicated what I thought i knew was nothing and girls i am not a porno watcher |
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Adelynn
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| 03/03/2010 8:25 AM |
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| I have to disagree with that, though, that girls don't like it when guys show off. If it's in sports... oh my goodness, please show off, get goofy, get really competitive. Not only is it entertaining and normal (girly guys don't seem very competitive), but, well maybe it's because I'm really into sports but I have a lot of respect for anyone who lays it down on the field =] |
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"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic |
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Adelynn
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| 03/03/2010 11:59 AM |
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| by the way, I wanted to point out that just because a guy isn't into sports doesn't mean he isn't manly. Just saying. |
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"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic |
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