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LiveYourLife91User is Offline

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10/04/2008 1:55 AM  

I'm kinda new here, and I wasn't sure where to post this question...:P Anyway, I could use a little advice here...I'm pretty confused.

There's this guy that I met recently, and ive seen him only a couple times. Well, like the second time we met up, dad told me that he had been way to forward and was hittin on me...and another guy plus my mom, backed him up..saying he was definately interested in me...I had to quit txtin him..and I hadnt even noticed anything at all! We like even talked about it(thru txting:P) cuz he had heard about some of the stuff my dad had said...and he told me he was rly sorry if he had been to forward...and he hopes I didnt get the wrong impression. So I thot, you know, everyone else had over reacted...well..they were still very sure about all this...and i'm not rly sure about the whole things..he still txtes every once in awhile...and now hes comin to visit...i duno what to think...could I have just been blind about the whole thing?? I mean I cant imagine I was that ignorant about it but...I duno...maybe I was..Anyone have any advice for me?!?!:D


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10/04/2008 2:19 AM  
if u like him, ask him out, if not don't do anything. if ur really confused, talk to him about it

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eillaUser is Offline

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10/04/2008 2:19 AM  
if u like him, ask him out, if not don't do anything. if ur really confused, talk to him about it

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LiveYourLife91User is Offline

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10/04/2008 12:09 PM  
well...thats another thing, I don't date so...

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10/04/2008 12:11 PM  
And I was alos wondering..like wut did I miss about him? Wut are some of the ways you know a guy likes you? cuz everyone else couldnt see how i missed it...

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10/04/2008 12:12 PM  
And I was also wondering..like wut did I miss about him? Wut are some of the ways you know a guy likes you? cuz everyone else couldnt see how i missed it...

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10/04/2008 8:47 PM  
in my opinion, do nottt ask him out. you don't know him well enough to go that far! goodness gracious.
i would say, just be yourself. yeaah, it's cliche and over-used, but really. if he does, in fact, seriously like you he'll be man enough to talk to you/your parents about it. otherwise, you two'll just become better friends. don't put on an act around him just because you assume he likes you or you want to be the girl he wants. being who God made you to be is all you can do and he'll see that in you and like it just as a friend way, or something more.
leave it in God's hands and He won't let you down!
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LiveYourLife91User is Offline

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10/04/2008 11:05 PM  
Thats great advice! thanx!:) and ya I definately don't know him well enough to even like him so...:P

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10/04/2008 11:07 PM  
Thats great advice! thanx!:) and ya I definately don't know him well enough to even like him so...ya :P But i'm still wondering how how everyone else say they can tell he acts way different around me and I totally missed it...

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10/04/2008 11:09 PM  
i have the same thing with like all my friends are like oh he sooooo likes you!!! and i'm like really? 0_o haha i think your kinda like wow hes cute... and you stop paying attention....

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10/04/2008 11:12 PM  
ya...I mean we talked a couple af times and stuff...and I didn't think anything about it...and they were like, he gave you way more attention than what just a friend would. lol..and i'm sittin the clueless:P

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10/04/2008 11:32 PM  
Eilla, you propose a very risky course of action. If I were asked out by a girl, the chances I would say no would be astronomical, and she would have probably have just shot her chance with me. (the possible exceptions: Sadie Hawkins Dance, or should I start dating, my girlfriend asking me to do something with her...) Just fyi, the "knight in shining armor" type of guys will usually not respond well to the woman making the first move.

I have the same problem with girls- I don't read flirting from them, or "interest"... I can sometimes see it between my friends, but not when I'm involved. Right now I could quote Paul- the whole "I wish everyone were single as I am, because when a man is single, he can devote his attention solely to God." thing... if you're intentionally single, and content that way, who really cares if you can read a guy? That's what your brothers and father are for. I might like to know if a girl "likes" me now, but it doesn't really matter- I could live my life right now without it just fine. It's something I can afford to learn in my own sweet time.

If you must know, there is a forum thread on the topic... I think it's entitled "liking boys" or something like that.

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10/04/2008 11:50 PM  
Ya, I can see what you mean about asking him out, but even oif I did date, I wouldnt ask him out cuz I dont like him in that way...

So do I need to like take this discussion to the other forum?

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