Ki-ol Mi-ck-Co-rd
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| 11/12/2009 11:49 AM |
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So, I have talked about this before - I like this girl, sometimes it seems like she likes me back sometimes. I am not very appealing, outside my mind. I know that doesn't matter, though. I'm not shy around her. We are friends. But she has turned me down before, and I don't want to wierd her out. Advice on getting her to notice me, more?
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"The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few... or the one."
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clare
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| 11/13/2009 12:15 AM |
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Just be friends! If she isn't ready for anything else respect that. Don't force a girl, that's dangerous haha joking. I saw your post on your age, I have a brother you age Little brother ok sorry. I just know that you're at the perfect time to enjoy life, enjoy girls as friends, it gets harder as you get older so don't speed up the battle!! |
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Ki-ol Mi-ck-Co-rd
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| 11/13/2009 12:47 PM |
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| Oh, I would never force anybody to anything. I understand you think that I'm to young or whatever, I actually had a three page forum, like 6 months ago, regarding the same girl, only now the situation has changed. Thanks for the advice, I know the friend thing works and I have been trying it. So, then here is my other question, How do I figure out more about her than I already know? |
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"The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few... or the one."
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clare
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| 11/13/2009 3:51 PM |
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| Ya I remember your other forum. Talk to her, it she wants to talk to you. Do you go to the same school? Would your parents allow you to study together? Eat lunch together? Invite some friends over and have her along to (make sure she isn't the only girl in 10 guys). look for just small things. |
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Ki-ol Mi-ck-Co-rd
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| 11/13/2009 7:22 PM |
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No, we don't go to the same school, being as I'm homescooled. I ate out
with her last Friday. I love just seeing her. One time we played Red
Rover with some little kids, that was awesome! Anyway, I do
know some stuff about her, she likes: shooting skeet and bible class -
Probably could learn some more. - Thanks for the help
Any other advice? |
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"The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few... or the one."
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emilyjanelle
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| 11/14/2009 6:37 PM |
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| I agree with Clare. just keep doing what you're doing! it seems as though you have a good head on your shoulders and things are flowing well. we can all get impatient (I know how that feels), but alot of it has to do with the timing. you're never going to get it spot-on perfect, but if you wait on God, things will just mesh together. don't overthink (Overthinking by Relient K, anybody?) every little thing and wear yourself out. either this will really go someplace, or it won't, but all for God's glory and your own good, in the end. |
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You may as well come quiet.
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Ki-ol Mi-ck-Co-rd
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| 11/15/2009 11:34 PM |
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| Today, Taylor (The girl I look) tried to set me up with Makyla (Her best friend). It could work, Makyla acts a lot like Taylor. Taylor was not kind enough to say if Makyla liked me back. I shall find out from a mutual friend. What do you guys think? |
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"The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few... or the one."
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Liz
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| 11/16/2009 9:27 PM |
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| Just wondering: how old are you? I personally think the dating game starts WAY too young!! I know a 12-year-old who is mad at a lady in our church because she won't let her son date until he's 16. (which i still think is too young)
But...If you are of the "dating age" (you may decide for yourself) I suggest talking to your parents. Ask if you can invite the girl AND her family over, so you can see how she acts with her parents and siblings, and vice-versa. |
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Ki-ol Mi-ck-Co-rd
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| 11/17/2009 12:51 AM |
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I am 14, 16 is defientetly not to young, which brings me to a question, how old do you think people should be when they start dating?
I know them all quite well. I get along with her parents. Are parents get along with each other. I get along with her. She gets along with my parents. She gets along with both her sisters, and her oldest sister's bf. Her sisters don't always get along. I don't really know her oldest sister or her oldest sister's bf. But, I get along with her other sister. I don't let my sister catch-on, she is far to nosy.
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"The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few... or the one."
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Ki-ol Mi-ck-Co-rd
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| 11/17/2009 12:53 AM |
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Ohh, and that was Taylor's trait's I know nothing about Makyla, and I think Taylor might be trying to test me. What do you think?
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"The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few... or the one."
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Christina
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| 11/17/2009 11:04 AM |
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With the dating age subject. I do think that 16 is even too young.
Look at the basics. The basic use of dating is to find someone you will marry. You can't marry. So why bother dating. If you do date, there is a 99.9% chance that it won't work out and one or both will get hurt. You'll have given your heart to someone, and when you break up, you never get all of it back.
So when you do finally find the girl you want to marry and you give her your heart. You can't give her all of it, because that girl you dated when you were 16 still has a piece of it. Whether you want that to happen or not.
And on the subject of her friend. You need to decide whether you like this girl or not. Because it seems to me that if you are already considering dating her friends then you really don't care a whole bunch about the first one, or the other one for that matter. |
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Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will recieve the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him.
James 1:12
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Ki-ol Mi-ck-Co-rd
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| 11/17/2009 11:41 AM |
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Okay, firstly even if you date at an age in which to marry, there is still a chance you will break up, bringing forth the same problem, they have your heart. I know two couples who have lasted since the first year of High School (My parents)
I care about Taylor, I think she is testing me, by asking me if I like Makyla - To find out if I like her (Taylor) - I do, I have liked Taylor for a year and a half or two years. Do you think she is testing me?
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"The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few... or the one."
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Christina
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| 11/17/2009 1:09 PM |
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At that age. I don't think even she knows what she is doing, honestly. I had no idea when I was that age.  |
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Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will recieve the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him.
James 1:12
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Ki-ol Mi-ck-Co-rd
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| 11/17/2009 1:43 PM |
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Not that this will change your opinion, but more for refrence, she is older than me, one year. She's exactly 359 days older than me - A year minus 6 days - Cool, right.
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"The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few... or the one."
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Christina
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| 11/17/2009 1:51 PM |
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To be perfectly honest. Me myself, and I understand everyone is different, but I don't know this person but, this is the best advice I can give.
It wasn't until this year (and I am 19) that I really got myself together with dealing with guys. That I knew how to act the correct way around them. And don;t get me wrong I am still learning. But maybe she just doesn't really know what she is doing.
It could be she only thinks of you as a friend and realizes that you DO like her, so she is trying to get the attention off of her, the best way she knows how at the moment. Maybe not.
What I am saying is that people, not just girls and not just guys, at that age are... pretty much.. well stupid at times. |
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Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will recieve the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him.
James 1:12
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Ki-ol Mi-ck-Co-rd
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| 11/17/2009 2:01 PM |
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Not a fair accusation everybody is stupid sometimes - She may be trying that though - She knew I liked her before and maybe trying to see if it is still true, I have learned to conceal my attractions to people. But, she is pretty smart. Now I am more unsure.
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"The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few... or the one."
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emilyjanelle
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| 11/18/2009 9:51 AM |
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At that age. I don't think even she knows what she is doing, honestly. I had no idea when I was that age... What I am saying is that people, not just girls and not just guys, at that age are... pretty much.. well stupid at times.
preach it, sister! =p |
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Ki-ol Mi-ck-Co-rd
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| 11/18/2009 12:18 PM |
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Posted By emilyjanelle on 11/18/2009 9:51 AM At that age. I don't think even she knows what she is doing, honestly. I had no idea when I was that age... What I am saying is that people, not just girls and not just guys, at that age are... pretty much.. well stupid at times. preach it, sister! =p
A specific part or all of it, Emily?
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"The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few... or the one."
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Liz
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| 11/18/2009 3:41 PM |
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Ok, You're 14.
Do you really think you're ready to get into long-term relationship? what do you think is the earliest you would get married? Do you think God is calling you to start this relationship Now?
I am 17, I have never had a boyfriend, and I am not going to until I think God wants me too.
Do you Really (and i'm not judging you here, i'm just stating my opinion) think this is the girl you want to marry someday, or might you be spending alot of time and energy and emotions on someone else's wife? |
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Adelynn
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| 11/18/2009 9:51 PM |
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| Great point, Liz! I heard someone once say that he went to a few of his ex-girlfriend's weddings, and that it was strange to think that he had kissed someone else's wife. |
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"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic |
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