Slayde
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| 07/21/2009 9:39 AM |
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Just a simple one: What is your love language?
For those who don't really know, taking this quiz might help: Click Here |
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4 out of 3 people admit that they are bad with fractions. |
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sarah
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| 07/21/2009 5:01 PM |
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| Quality Time and Physical Touch are mine. |
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David
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| 07/21/2009 7:02 PM |
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| Very, very, very expensive gifts. |
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Aim at heaven and you will get earth thrown in. Aim at earth and you get neither.
- C.S. Lewis |
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Locke
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| 07/21/2009 9:54 PM |
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| Words of affirmation, primarily, and then quality time. |
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It is trifles that make the sum of life. |
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Abi_xD
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| 07/22/2009 6:42 AM |
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thanks for posting that link
i've been wondering about the love languages lately = ] |
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Adelynn
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| 07/22/2009 8:53 AM |
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| Quality time =] |
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"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic |
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Sandy
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| 07/22/2009 5:59 PM |
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| quality time and then words of affirmation comes really close |
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JoJo
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| 07/22/2009 6:12 PM |
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| I am Quality Time and Physicaly Touch, closely followed by words of affermation. |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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JoJo
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| 07/22/2009 6:12 PM |
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| sorry, physical |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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Lucky Albatross
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| 07/22/2009 6:14 PM |
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| Quality Time |
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One step at time,
I trust these feet of mine,
To carry me on to where I belong.
Mike Zito |
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clare
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| 07/23/2009 9:35 PM |
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| Gift giving and quality time. Of all things my bf had to be physical touch...owe hard one!! |
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clare
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| 07/23/2009 9:36 PM |
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| And why must the gift be very very expensive David?? |
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artyprincess
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| 07/25/2009 1:24 AM |
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Ha - I was wondering that too, Clare!
Mine is Quality Time. |
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God Can. |
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David
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| 07/25/2009 3:10 PM |
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| Because that's just my love language, haha. |
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Aim at heaven and you will get earth thrown in. Aim at earth and you get neither.
- C.S. Lewis |
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clare
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| 07/25/2009 4:08 PM |
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Well it is mine to but the gift doesn't have to be expensive. Some of the most special things given me were the smallest worthless things. Do you have siblings? It's so sweet when one of my younger siblings (there's only 6 of them) gives me something they made, even if it's just a rock out of the drive way or a card made of 50% glue and stickiness! To me it's the thought not the price. My bf took me to get my ears pierced and that gift was just as special as the single rose he got for me.
Do you like giving as much as receiving? I think the true gift love language isn't just receiving. Iove getting people the perfect gift. |
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David
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| 07/25/2009 6:42 PM |
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| In case people don't realize, I'm totally kidding. I haven't taken that test yet, but if I had to guess I would say words of affirmation definitely, and... something else. |
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Aim at heaven and you will get earth thrown in. Aim at earth and you get neither.
- C.S. Lewis |
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clare
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| 07/27/2009 1:57 PM |
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I told you before and I'll tell you again. You are so sarcastic!! guess I got pretty defensive when it sounded like my love language was being degraded haha. Hey my bf is very affirming and since that's what he interprets love through I want to be more that way. Problem is I'm very negative! But what are things guys like to hear from girls that makes them feel good? |
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David
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| 07/27/2009 5:15 PM |
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We want to feel admired and respected, mostly. Tell him how good he is at stuff, how much you look up to him, how much he impresses you. Always let him know how much he impresses you. Do this with words, actions, body language, the look on your face. etc. We always want to be impressive to the girls we like. Tell him how attractive you find him, how handsome/good-looking/hot/delicious he looks (ok, maybe not the last one unless you really want to).
Don't ever put him down. If he does something negative you need to address, do it in a respectful manner. Of course, this is given that what he has done is something that you two can work through. Hypothetically, if you find out he cheated on you, by all means jump down his throat. But if he somehow makes you mad or hurt without meaning to or realizing it, try your best not to degrade, insult or nag him - that will only make him stonewall. |
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Aim at heaven and you will get earth thrown in. Aim at earth and you get neither.
- C.S. Lewis |
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David
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| 07/27/2009 5:18 PM |
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| One more thing, and perhaps most important, never, never, never, never make him feel as if you have contempt for him. John Gottman, perhaps the topmost researcher in the field or marital conflict, cited by such people as Emerson Eggerichs, author of Love and Respect, (a book which FYMO, FYWO, FMO, and FWO cite and heavily agree with), found in his research that the number one indicator of an unhealthy marriage and perhaps the best way to bring a marriage to divorce was when one or both of the spouses treated the other with contempt. Contempt is the number one killer of relationships. |
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Aim at heaven and you will get earth thrown in. Aim at earth and you get neither.
- C.S. Lewis |
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emilyjanelle
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| 07/29/2009 11:26 AM |
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| Physical Touch (12) was the highest for me, followed by Quality Time (8), then Words of Affirmation (5), Acts of Service (3), and Receiving Gifts (2). that really didn't surprise me, haha! |
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You may as well come quiet.
- Police Maxim |
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