JeffStarr
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| 02/04/2009 8:30 PM |
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Heres my situation. I was going out with this girl for nigh on 3 months but then everything fell apart when I mentioned this other girl at my school. Doh!! We just kinda happened to start up a friendship so we were txting each other a lot for a few days and then my gf thought I was cheating on her cuz I went to the mall with her and one of her friends. So all this kinda escalated and we broke up. She says she still wants me and I want her back but she says since I hurt her that I have to win her back. So one of my friends told me about this book and I went to Barnes & Noble and went to pick it up. I've had it for 2 hours and I'm through the first 3 chapters. So guys and gals. Any advice on what I can do?
Thanks, Jeff.
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Goodbye cruel world and all you've done
Eat my dust you son of a gun. |
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Sandy
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| 02/04/2009 9:36 PM |
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If both of ya'll want to get back together and are willing to try then I say there's hope. You have to gain her trust little by little. I think that by hanging out with the other girl she may have felt betrayed and well basically she didn't like it.( How would you like it if she started a similar friendship with another guy) Just show that you're making an effort and she'll start accepting it little by little.
My best advice is just to pray and know that God knows what's best. |
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XtremeRiskTaker
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| 02/04/2009 9:48 PM |
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| Honestly man, I don't think you should go out with this girl anymore. If she dosen't like you enough to take you back once you.ve explained the situation, she really dosen't like you that much. If she wnats you to win her back she's either playin with you or just not that into you dude. Alot of ppl fall into this situation. I recomend just starting to look for someone that likes you for who you are like that one girl you've been texting. |
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JeffStarr
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| 02/04/2009 10:05 PM |
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Thanks, guys. It seems like she's just kinda throwing me around like a ragdoll. I don't know if that's just one big game to her or if this is the way she works.....she says she "loves" me but it seems the complete opposite....I just don't get it.
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Goodbye cruel world and all you've done
Eat my dust you son of a gun. |
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Sandy
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| 02/04/2009 10:10 PM |
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| Well she's probally having trouble because she may have felt hurt and doesn't want to be hurt again. You should probally give her the benifit of the doubt. On the other hand if you strongly feel that she's playing with you it may be best to seperate. At least for some time to see where you stand. |
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JoJo
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| 02/04/2009 11:47 PM |
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Yeah, If you've explained it to her (How old is she btw...)
she should realise that you werent cheating and forgive you...
But it depends on her age, like if she's mature enough to realise this... if shes like between 12-15, she probably isnt, and therefore would have been genuinely hurt and might feel like you dont actually like her (As girls tend to feel like this alot at that age, and when you hung out w/ someone else, she probably jumped to the wrong conclusion and is now really hurt...)
Also just watch how she acts. for now, try winning her trust back, but if she demands you to do lots of things or makes you feel bad about it etc, then, she's playing you...
Hope you can figure out which it is! God Bless!! |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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emilyjanelle
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| 02/05/2009 1:07 PM |
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| yeah age is a big deal here. i completely agree with jojo and xtreme on this one. |
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You may as well come quiet.
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JeffStarr
Posts:14
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| 02/05/2009 6:42 PM |
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She's 15 I'm 16. I've got some more things to try but if they don't work then I'm done. Pray for me kay guys? Thanks abunch.  |
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Goodbye cruel world and all you've done
Eat my dust you son of a gun. |
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Waitin08
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| 02/05/2009 11:14 PM |
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Sure Jeff, I'm prayin for you!! Hope it works out!  Will you pray for me too? I'm waitin for a guy to contact me, and I'm soooo very impatient!  It's been two days already! |
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Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver. -Barbara De Angelis |
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JoJo
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| 02/05/2009 11:29 PM |
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Yes, Ill pray for you.
Everyone could use prayer, and it's so awesome that we can pray for others!!! Especially in situations where we want to give it over to God etc
(which should be all area's, but we're all human and have alot of stuff to work through, so we cant expect to be perfect...  ) |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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MyLifeHisWill
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| 02/12/2009 11:37 AM |
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| AHHHHHHHHHH!!!! ok sorry HUGE mistake in texting another girl alot and going to the mall with her without your girlfriend .... eeeeekkkkk....its okay you can win her back but seriously girls are jealous people and ekkkkkk yea never do that again!!!!! Trust me i have a boyfriend and I woulda reacted the same way - but truth is she still loves you, she just needs to heal and you needa gain her trust back - im rooting for u!!!! |
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JeffStarr
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| 02/12/2009 4:49 PM |
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Thanks for praying for me guys. Well one night I decided to get on my motorcycle and sneak out of my house at around midnight and rode down to her house. Apologized and asked her out again and she said yes!! So it took a lot of talking and whatnot but she trusts me now. And everything seems to be back to normal. And I told my parents that I left at night and they didn't get mad at me. I love them so much. So yeah. Never making that mistake again. Thanks for praying for me everybody. I think it really helped. And on top of all that we had chapel at my school a few days ago and it really opened up my eyes. So I think it's relatively smooth sailing for me now Thanks again guys.
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Goodbye cruel world and all you've done
Eat my dust you son of a gun. |
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