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lovepink687
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| 03/08/2011 9:40 PM |
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| Hey I was wondering how all of you feel about how old is too old and how young is too young to date someone who's not your age? |
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nateynate
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| 03/09/2011 4:13 PM |
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| depends, wat age are you now? |
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" Wake up oh my soul
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rise up you sleepy soul
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lovepink687
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| 03/09/2011 10:30 PM |
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| Well I just turned 17 2 days ago |
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nateynate
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| 03/10/2011 12:47 PM |
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| then i would say about 1 year down and two years up at max |
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rise up you sleepy soul
rise up and praise the Lord"
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nateynate
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| 03/10/2011 12:47 PM |
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Oh well happy birthday  then i would say about 1 year down and two years up at max |
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" Wake up oh my soul
wake up and praise the Lord
rise up you sleepy soul
rise up and praise the Lord"
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lovepink687
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| 03/10/2011 8:13 PM |
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| I kinda like this guy that's 14...idk what to do |
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JoJo
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| 03/10/2011 8:54 PM |
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hehehe, welcome to my world...
the last guy I liked was 3 years younger than me... it's not too bad when you're both out of Highschool... but idk, atm I have a 1 year below, 3 years above limit for myself, as after the 3 yrs younger guy, I'm not too keen to go there again... haha. and I'm almost 22. |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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nateynate
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| 03/11/2011 2:42 PM |
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| yea ummm i would slow your roll lovepink thats a little to young |
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" Wake up oh my soul
wake up and praise the Lord
rise up you sleepy soul
rise up and praise the Lord"
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dc_88keys4christ
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| 03/11/2011 6:50 PM |
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| I think so too. |
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JoJo
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| 03/12/2011 5:46 AM |
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| just a statement, also ALOT older can be an issue, I know a few girls who have married or gotten involved with way older guys, like twice their age, and it's been.... difficult to put it lightly... |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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wjr1991
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| 03/12/2011 12:17 PM |
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Well, once you're in your 60's, nobody's going to know who's older. :-P (My parents are 10 years apart, another well respected couple in my church is also 10 years apart, but the woman is the older one.)
As far as what to do... he's 14, which for guys is definitely not old enough for serious dating... guys should hold off until they're 25. :-P Ok, no, but he should at least be able to legally drive you on dates. That's 2 years you don't need to worry about right there. Just don't panic. You've got time. |
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Nicole
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| 03/13/2011 5:31 AM |
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Okay, well I would say no hurry in dating. Seriously, just take the time to grow and learn more about yourself before you start to date. I look at teenage girls age like 13-15 who have boyfriends, and I'm like o_O I think that's way too young for a girl to date. In my honest opinion, I think a good age for a girl to date is about 18, maybe 17 at the youngest. For the most part though, I really stand by no hurries to start dating- just because the world does it, doesn't mean you need to follow suit, besides, singleness is just as awesome. Then again, I'm also speaking from the experience of being single at age 20.  I think girls make a serious mistake when they think they NEED a man to complete their life- especially at age 12 or 13, (they're too young). When that happens, it's total chaos and confusion for her. For guys, I agree with Will that age 14 is too young, and yeah, I kinda go for the idea that he needs to at least be able to drive on a date. I think a big factor is deciding when to date is a maturity (level). A girl that's 13 and dating a guy that's say 17 is going to be WAY more immature than he is. Of course, I don't recommend this age gap anyway. With the age gap, I think the appropriateness varies. For example: a 15 dating a 25 year old is going to be no for me, but a couple that's maybe 30 and 40, okay that's better. Same thing with 13 and 18 vs. 25 and 30; there's a big difference in maturity level with a 13 and 18 year old, vs. a 25 and 30 year old couple who are in college and have more maturity. Teenagers tend to also have that invincible mentality, and their better judgement doesn't fully develop till about ummm 25 I think. (don't quote me directly on that). Haha I may have gone off on a tangent or so, but I hope this helps? |
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whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it's time to pause and reflect -Mark Twain |
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JoJo
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| 03/13/2011 6:39 AM |
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no, what you say makes sense Nicole 
yeah I see no problem if the guy is younger or older, or the same age but yeah maturity levels do play a role... personally, my only guy friends atm that are about the same level of maturity, the youngest is about 19... haha my brother is 19, but hes way mature for his age, any girl'd be lucky to have him, but they have to get through me seriously...
hehe anyways... so for my age, 19'd be the youngest Id go for, and idk, 25/26 at the oldest... |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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Bart Kooijman
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| 03/20/2011 3:28 PM |
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| Hey All,
I'm new to the forum so hello to all guys 'n girls here! I just bought the Dutch version of the book here in Holland and I must say this book is really an eye-opener for me, Sorry for the offtop, but I had this strange thing myself, I kinda liked a girl who was not my age at all, I am 16 and she was like 12 or 13. It's rather difficult to handle this, but I managed! |
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Best regards,
Bart Kooijman
God bless |
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Nicole
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| 03/20/2011 6:40 PM |
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| Hello Bart! Nice to meet you Well, for starters, I'm one of the oldies on this forum- yes, my name is Nicole, it's my original name, and yeah I'm a super crazy Asian. ^_^ You could probably find a bunch of my posts, along with Jo's if you dig through the archives. For another introduction, check out 'the originals topic' ^_^ See you around Bart! |
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whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it's time to pause and reflect -Mark Twain |
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Bart Kooijman
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| 03/22/2011 2:00 AM |
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| Thank you Nicole! |
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Best regards,
Bart Kooijman
God bless |
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dc_88keys4christ
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| 03/22/2011 1:50 PM |
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| Hello, Bart! A very warm welcome to you from another super-crazy Asian! I think you're the first one from Holland on here! Congrats!!! |
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Bart Kooijman
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| 03/24/2011 2:40 AM |
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| Thanks! Always nice to be the first one! |
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Best regards,
Bart Kooijman
God bless |
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dc_88keys4christ
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| 03/25/2011 1:18 AM |
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| Jo's got it, and I think you shouldn't worry about dating and stuff unless you're ready to consider somebody as a marriage partner-- for real. So even if you're 30 and have never dated, you shouldn't worry about it if you're not in a place, whether it be spiritually, financially, or in regards to maturity, to get married. |
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JoJo
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| 03/27/2011 12:09 AM |
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| yeah it sucks when people start dating and then get engaged and then either right then, or after they get married, they realise they're totally not prepared... and it's really hard... |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.
God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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