HeenuhHunny
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| 01/15/2011 11:27 PM |
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| Do you think it is okay for a girl to express her interest in a guy?
If not, why?
If so, what do you think are appropriate things a girl could say or do to show a guy that she was interested in him? |
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"Tomorrow we'll discover what our God in Heaven has in store...One more dawn, one more day, one day more!" (Les Miserables)
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Dennix
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| 01/15/2011 11:45 PM |
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| I think it's ok to show interest interest in a guy like talking to him or doing things together but I don't think she should be the one to ask for a date or anything. |
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love*
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| 01/15/2011 11:57 PM |
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hmm..i think it ok i liked this guy from my church.we texed quite a bit but i was nevr rly sure if he liked me.like he wuld say stuff that wuld make me think that mayb he did but he would nevr say yes i do or no i dont.lol i actually found out through a friend that he liked me but then i went straight up to the guy n asked him myself n wat he wantedwere just frends now(long story lol) but i think if th guy isnt being straightforward u shuld go rite up n c wats going onhope that helps a little! |
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love*
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| 01/15/2011 11:59 PM |
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| steadfast,just saw your post aftr i posted mine!hope u dont mind dif opinions |
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James
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| 01/16/2011 4:45 AM |
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| I think it's good for a girl to express interest, not always totally upfront cause that can be a bit scary haha guys probably won't pick up on that many of your hints though so it depends what you want to happen telling friends is usually good |
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Dennix
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| 01/17/2011 9:00 PM |
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| Hey, No problem at all. |
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Beckah
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| 01/19/2011 3:31 PM |
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ok so becides the asking a guy out, whats to far for giving hints? i mean like do ya just give him a note that says I like ya, do you like me? and have one of those check yes or no... hahahaha
like how do you hint to guy you like with out freakin him out??? |
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"Check yourself before you wreck yourself" |
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love*
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| 01/19/2011 6:54 PM |
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hmm..that is a very good question u culd like..nevr mind ive cum up blank!lol |
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James
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| 01/19/2011 7:35 PM |
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hahaha I could just imagine a little questionaire thing with:
do you have any siblings?
do you have any pets?
do you like school?
are you single?
do you like me?
While I think that's pretty cute there would be guys out there that would get freaked out by that sort of thing, it's hard because you kind of want something obvious that isn't too in your face but for many boys the two things are the same haha.
Something like a note or a txt that is sort of affectionate and is more than just your average message would be good. I'm sure the perfect 'thing' that gets the information across without being awkward would be different depending on the guy. For shy, introverted guys they will love some 'gentle' attention and will really take in your words/cues much more. Extroverts love attention even more but they tend to get it more and so to make it special you would have to be a bit different around them.
Kind of a ramble but hope something in that is useful |
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Becka
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| 01/19/2011 8:34 PM |
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it's hard because you kind of want something obvious that isn't too in your face but for many boys the two things are the same haha.
Oh so THAT'S why a certain guy I know is acting the way he is!! Thanks for that comment, James!! |
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James
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| 01/20/2011 1:29 AM |
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That's alright not sure what that comment explains exactly haha just pretty much saying guys are really slow when it comes to taking clues and obvious to them is completely in your face..
Just a generalisation though some guys are pretty good, usually the ones that get on well with girls  |
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Beckah
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| 01/20/2011 1:51 PM |
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ya i think he likes me and i just came out and said i like you. lol
he sent me a pic of him! do you think that means he likes me?? cuz i sent him one of me after.
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James
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| 01/20/2011 5:53 PM |
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| Yeah I would say so If you're good friends and you say you like him and he doesn't get awkward or go all deep and say you're just a friend to him then he probably does |
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Beckah
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| 01/20/2011 6:58 PM |
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| the guy im talking about here is the same guy on the "snail mail" post. lol |
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James
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| 01/20/2011 8:52 PM |
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yeah I figured  can't remember everything from all of it but I'll cross reference later |
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Beckah
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| 01/21/2011 12:03 PM |
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| yep yep! |
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"Check yourself before you wreck yourself" |
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Beckah
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| 01/30/2011 10:41 AM |
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| ok i gave a big hint to my guy friend, and well he knew it was one. before i gave im a hint i told him guys are so cluless, we argued about it. so now i feel just awful bout the hint! i told him about this really beautiful prom dress, Bad idea, i forgot the school he goes to is christian school. And they dont a have prom or dancing. what was i even thinking!!!! |
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Becka
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| 01/30/2011 8:09 PM |
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| Christian schools don't have a prom or any kind of dancing? Ooh never knew that. |
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my blog - http://beckasramblings.blogspot.com/
previously Jessamae.
the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair - Relient K |
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dc_88keys4christ
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| 01/30/2011 8:12 PM |
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| Wouldn't it depend on the school? I have no idea; I'm homeschooled |
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Beckah
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| 01/31/2011 12:12 AM |
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| im homeschooled too! but ya it prolly depends on the school. |
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