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Liz

Posts:341

12/02/2009 10:24 PM
I am gonna wait till my wedding day. Amen Sister!! I can't wait to wait!

A girl should be so lost in God that a guy has to go in Him in order to find her

stephanie

Posts:2

12/03/2009 8:58 AM
i think low A or B. i mean it's about being respectful of those around you. theres a time and a place for everything. I'm on my way to go to college for theatre and love scenes are a part of job. i don't consider the kissins i do onstage as real kisses. I have been dating a guy for over a year no and i've been in 2 shows that i had kissing/making out in.and it hasnt bothered either of us because it was part of a charactor not me cheating on him. as for me and my boyfriend are very comfortable with kissing. he asked me and parents if he could date me with the intention of marriage. so we see nothing wrong with kissing and holding each other. we decided anything that we wouldn't want our little sisters doing was what we shouldn't do. and since my parents are very involved pretty much whatever me and my boyfriend do physically we should be able to do in front of my parents. so we have found a good balence.

KelseyLiza User is Offline

Posts:10

12/03/2009 12:49 PM
I'm waiting till my wedding day. It may be a bit awkward, but who cares? It will be a good kind of awkward, and it will be so special! I'm waiting for three reasons 1) because I want physical intimacy with the man I marry to be as special as it can be! and that's the way God intended it. 2) I'm afraid that a kiss would lead to more. A kiss is so intimate and could only make me want to be even more intimate prematurely. 3) I want to make sure that me and my boyfriend/fiance are focusing on getting to know each other as people and not merely bodies. I basically want to avoid most forms of physical touch and focus on each other's hearts and characters. It's also a good test of his love for you! It says a lot if he respects and agrees with your standards for purity. It shows that he intends to commit to you and not just use you to fulfill his physical desires.

Scifi

Posts:68

12/03/2009 2:29 PM
I have already kissed a girl but these days I wish I had set my standard to D). It woulda saved a lot of problems.

"The purpose of Christianity is not to avoid difficulty, but to produce a character adequate to meet it when it comes. It does not make life easy; rather it tries to make us great enough for life." -- James L. Christensen "For a small reward, a man will hurry away on a long journey; while for eternal life, many will hardly take a single step." Thomas a' Kempis (1380-1471) ---- Scifi

Scifi

Posts:68

12/03/2009 2:30 PM
However from this point on I have committed to only kiss a girl if I know I'm gonna marry her

"The purpose of Christianity is not to avoid difficulty, but to produce a character adequate to meet it when it comes. It does not make life easy; rather it tries to make us great enough for life." -- James L. Christensen "For a small reward, a man will hurry away on a long journey; while for eternal life, many will hardly take a single step." Thomas a' Kempis (1380-1471) ---- Scifi

clare

Posts:952

12/03/2009 6:18 PM
That's great scifi! I kissed a guy but now I'm determined not to until I know he's the one!

Shortnsassy3436 User is Offline

Posts:21

12/03/2009 6:27 PM
personlay I want to save my first( lip) kiss for my wedding day cause I think it would be awsome..but if I can't hold myself to that standard I'm not gonna beet myself up over it either. I don't think it is wrong so C or D.

<3 One tear in the driving rain,One voice in the sea of pain,could the maker of the star hear the sound of my breaking heart. - Tenth Avenue North, Hold my Heart. <3

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