Shortnsassy3436
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| 12/03/2009 7:58 AM |
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We are friends, I've known him around a year, we make LOTS of eye contact , smiles all the time at me, jokes around, texts some, and he just recently found out that I like him...but there is a guy in my youth group that told me that the guy I like hates me and a nother guy that told me he likes me but doesn't know how to show it. We are both 17 and really shy ( he is shyer than me) and he gas never had a girlfriend. Neither of us has had our first kiss except each other during truth or dare this summer. Do you think he hates or that the guy that told me that just doesn't know what he is talking about?
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<3 One tear in the driving rain,One voice in the sea of pain,could the maker of the star hear the sound of my breaking heart. - Tenth Avenue North, Hold my Heart. <3 |
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Jimmy
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| 12/03/2009 7:52 PM |
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| I think the other guy likes you and he's trying to hog you for himself. |
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Ki-ol Mi-ck-Co-rd
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| 12/04/2009 1:52 AM |
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I couldn't read the post very well, but from what I could make out, I agree with Jimmy. The guy that you like, didn't tell you that he hates you himself. And even if he doesn't like you (Which seems unlikely) he probably doesn't hate you. Hope this helped, Kyle.
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"The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few... or the one."
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Shortnsassy3436
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| 12/04/2009 7:04 AM |
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| Thanx guys! |
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<3 One tear in the driving rain,One voice in the sea of pain,could the maker of the star hear the sound of my breaking heart. - Tenth Avenue North, Hold my Heart. <3 |
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Ki-ol Mi-ck-Co-rd
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| 12/04/2009 4:07 PM |
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| Welcome! |
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"The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few... or the one."
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Shortnsassy3436
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| 12/04/2009 5:09 PM |
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| Hey I see you r homeschooled..me 2!! do u like it? |
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<3 One tear in the driving rain,One voice in the sea of pain,could the maker of the star hear the sound of my breaking heart. - Tenth Avenue North, Hold my Heart. <3 |
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Ki-ol Mi-ck-Co-rd
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| 12/05/2009 5:07 AM |
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Sometimes we don't learn enough. I wish I could go to Highschool with my friends. Only a few of them homeschool.
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"The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few... or the one."
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Shortnsassy3436
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| 12/05/2009 8:07 AM |
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| friends are the only reason I would want 2 go 2 highschool. have u ever been in Public school? |
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<3 One tear in the driving rain,One voice in the sea of pain,could the maker of the star hear the sound of my breaking heart. - Tenth Avenue North, Hold my Heart. <3 |
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Ki-ol Mi-ck-Co-rd
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| 12/05/2009 12:32 PM |
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| Yeah, till 3rd Grade. Not sure why mom pulled me out. Honestly going to High-school with my friends is probably out of reach they are mostly in a dif town. |
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Scifi
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| 12/07/2009 5:26 PM |
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If he hated you he woulda said no to kissing you in truth or dare, and btw that does count as a first kiss!  |
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Shortnsassy3436
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| 12/08/2009 10:05 AM |
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A first kiss is lips ..not cheeks in truth or dare! |
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<3 One tear in the driving rain,One voice in the sea of pain,could the maker of the star hear the sound of my breaking heart. - Tenth Avenue North, Hold my Heart. <3 |
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Jimmy
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| 12/08/2009 8:52 PM |
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| And a first kiss has to be special. |
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Shortnsassy3436
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| 12/09/2009 8:09 AM |
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| I agree with Jimmy , now don't get me wrong I liked the kisses...but it was truth or dare. =P |
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<3 One tear in the driving rain,One voice in the sea of pain,could the maker of the star hear the sound of my breaking heart. - Tenth Avenue North, Hold my Heart. <3 |
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Ki-ol Mi-ck-Co-rd
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| 12/09/2009 5:32 PM |
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Posted By Scifi on 12/07/2009 5:26 PM If he hated you he woulda said no to kissing you in truth or dare, and btw that does count as a first kiss! " align="absmiddle" border="0"> 
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Shortnsassy3436
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| 12/10/2009 8:07 AM |
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no it doesn't!  |
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<3 One tear in the driving rain,One voice in the sea of pain,could the maker of the star hear the sound of my breaking heart. - Tenth Avenue North, Hold my Heart. <3 |
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Adelynn
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| 12/10/2009 5:07 PM |
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| it does =] "making out" isn't the only first kiss you can have... only two lips are necessary for a kiss, even on someone's cheek |
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Liz
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| 12/11/2009 6:54 PM |
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I totally agree with you Adelynn.
Turth or Dare or not, it's still a kiss,
And a first kiss isn't something you should be giving away in a game of Truth or Dare! |
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A girl should be so lost in God that a guy has to go in Him in order to find her |
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Adelynn
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| 12/12/2009 10:22 AM |
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| it's okay, though! Now that you've thought about what a first (or second!) kiss is and who is worthy of yours, you can make great choices based on that |
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"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic |
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Shortnsassy3436
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| 12/13/2009 6:20 AM |
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Posted By Adelynn on 12/12/2009 10:22 AM
it's okay, though! Now that you've thought about what a first (or second!) kiss is and who is worthy of yours, you can make great choices based on that
you make it sound like I regret it..but I don't, for a few reasons.
1. I REALLY REALLY like this guy.
2. I still don't count it as a first kiss.
3.I'm saving ALL my lip kisses for my hubby.
4.I did think about it a while before I took the dare. |
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<3 One tear in the driving rain,One voice in the sea of pain,could the maker of the star hear the sound of my breaking heart. - Tenth Avenue North, Hold my Heart. <3 |
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Adelynn
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| 12/13/2009 10:25 AM |
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For some reason, I thought you wouldn't regret it. And regret isn't a good thing, but what a "first kiss" is or isn't shouldn't be based on whether you wish it was a first kiss or if you don't even like the guy.
Think about it this way- do you plan on being married someday? What if your future husband (no matter who he ends up being), saw you treating this guy this way? Even if you do marry this particular guy, doesn't it say so much about how much you'll love your future husband if you respect him enough to not give your heart to someone else? And what if this guy's future wife could time-travel and see you with this guy- would she be upset by how you're treating him?
It's not wrong to like a guy or hope that he notices you (barring if you are already married or have a bf), but today is practice for tomorrow, and today really does count. |
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"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic |
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