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brandon
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JoJo
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| 06/26/2009 8:01 PM |
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I donno, everyone has to find their own way of talking to the opposite gender... like Im just a friendly person, so I'm used to talking to everyone... but yeah everyone will have a unique way of talking to people  so yeah, I guess it's like a trial and error thing... you kinda just have to keep trying, and it may take time, but as long as you're willing to learn how to talk to girls, I'm sure you'll be fine |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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brandon
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| 06/28/2009 1:10 PM |
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 Theres a girl in my church i kinda like and im nervouse to tlk to her what approach should i take ehat should i do. im afraid ofd loosing my chances |
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emilyjanelle
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| 06/28/2009 11:11 PM |
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| honestly, the only way you're gonna lose your chances is by not TAKING any chances. the worst turn off for a girl, IMO, is when they learn that the guy they like/d didn't have the guts to be the first to strike up a conversation with them. do what you can (within reason, don't be a stalker!) to be around her with your/her friends, at activities/events she's at, and find out what she likes to do (once again, by talking to her). even if this girl doesn't have feelings for you, I can almost guarantee she'll commend you for your efforts in the end. :] |
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Cayla Renae
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| 06/29/2009 12:23 PM |
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Just one suggestion here: ask questions. Apparently the greatest conversationalists are actually people who do more listening than talking - they ask the questions! I've found that it works well for myself, so I hope it works for you too.
(And just a side note: don't ask too many questions... that can get annoying. Just be calm and be yourself and let it flow. If you stumble a bit, don't worry - she just might think it's cute)  |
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Nicole
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| 07/02/2009 2:45 AM |
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What Cayla Renae says is true.  Girls (can) be weird creatures, we do sometimes think that the most random things are adorable.  Hey, what can you lose? If you don't talk to her, you'll never know, if you do, then at least you could make her smile. |
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whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it's time to pause and reflect -Mark Twain |
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Shelby
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| 07/04/2009 1:05 AM |
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truth : looks do matter slightly
i'm not going to date someone i'm not attracted to because then i feel that i can't truly invest in a romantic relationship and it is a lie
TRUTH : if the guy has a attractive personality (he's nice, respectful, funny) he can become attractive to me despite how he may look
it isn't always how he looks as much as how he carries himself
confidence is always attractive as long as it isn't pride |
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if uturnchic
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| 08/10/2009 3:03 PM |
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| I am so sorry that that girl said that to you. We aren't perfect, but that was uncalled for. I would move on. There's always going to be a feeling for them in their hurt, but sometimes you have to move on. Like i said, i am so sorry, and i hope that things go well for you in the future |
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We are His portion, and He is our prize; drawn to redemption by the grace in His eyes. If His grace is an ocean we're all sinking. Heaven meets earth like an unforseen kiss, and my heart it turns violently inside of my chest. I don't have time to maintain these regrets when I think about the way He loves us.
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