calebm94
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| 03/06/2009 9:41 PM |
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OK...So I have this friend who I have known for 1 year and we have grown really close over that time period and i really like her as more than a friend so my queston is should i ask her out or is it too early in our friendship to try and move forward and also should I ask on a one on one date or a group a one or two couples... cause if you can't tell i am kinda new to the whole asking girls on dates thing but i really like her...HELP!!!!!
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JoJo
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| 03/07/2009 12:00 AM |
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well, I think it's an o.k. time to ask her out. Id probably do group dates to start with, cuz it's less akward, and if you can't think of a convo starter, you have others there to help lol 
How old are you 2 btw?
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Mike
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| 03/07/2009 3:04 PM |
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I'd tell you that you should ask her out if you're old enough to begin considering marriage (probably around 18-20 or so). Otherwise, I'd wait and just be friends and go places in groups so that there's no pressure to date or move forward or whatever. I liked (had a romantic interest in) the girl that I'm dating since Freshman year, but we only started dating last month (and I'm a Senior now in High School).
In either case though, if you're a Christian you should read the books For Young Men Only (which I assume you have if you're here), perhaps FYWO too just to get the opposite perspective (I borrowed this one from my friend), Single Men Are Like Waffles, Single Women Are Like Spaghetti, and The Five Love Languages for Singles. You could read the non-singles versions of these last couple books, but there's a lot of stuff in them that applies more to married people.
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calebm94
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| 03/07/2009 5:03 PM |
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well Jo Jo I am 17 and she is going to be 17 in april so... and i will most likely read those books mike thanks for the suggestions...Thank You for the Advice
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calebm94
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| 03/07/2009 5:06 PM |
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Oh and i have read the For Young Men Only i found out about the books through my parents cause they had read the for men and for women ones so...Thanks! |
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JoJo
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| 03/07/2009 8:49 PM |
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| yeah, well, you're approx around the age Mike said. so yeah, it's up to you but yes, those books def will help you're relationship lol |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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emilyjanelle
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| 03/09/2009 11:06 AM |
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| yeah, i would say definitely start with group dates. 17 is an okay age, i mean, it all depends on your own opinion of how mature you think you should be. for me, i agree with mike, if you're ready to think about marriage (which, legally, is 18+) then you're ready to date. a year is a good amount of time to get to know her as a friend, so that's good, too. go ahead, if you've prayed about it and believe that this is where God is leading you two. just my thoughts. :] |
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Locke
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| 03/09/2009 1:55 PM |
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| The last two books Mike listed I definitely recommend. (I say 'last two' because I assume you have the first one) |
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Daughter of Zion
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| 03/12/2009 11:26 AM |
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| have you prayed about it? also, if you want to please her father, ask him for permission to date her. |
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maddiegirl
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| 05/24/2009 8:02 PM |
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hmmm...maybe try to test the waters a little, of u can. notice if she acts any different around you than how just friends would act. pray about it. MAYBE - and this is a huge maybe --- ask one of her friends who u trust if she might like you. but thats a B--I---G maybe.
and until u find out nething definite, just keep being friends. |
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